Tuesday, August 26, 2008
People Who Are Bad For You
Why are people curious about people who they know are bad for them? For example that ex best girlfriend who has done nothing but talk crap behind your back, why do you still look at her blog and wonder how she is doing? Or what about that ex who in hind sight was horrible to you, why do you want to look him up on myspace or facebook? Why do we let people who do not care for us effect our thoughts? It's crazy! Is it because we secretly hope horrible things for them and hope to discover this when we ask about them? What do you think? Do you have thoughts about people who are bad for you?
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I think it is our human nature to be a little voyeuristic. We like to sneak peeks into other's lives just to see what is up.
I personally look for people I am no longer in contact with to compare our lives (I almost always come out the winner!)
I don't see any harm in "googling" an ex-friend/boyfriend as long as you aren't contacting them to say "Na, Na, Na! My life is better than yours!" I am pretty sure they are "googling" us too!
I think our heads know people are bad for us, but sometimes our hearts wish we could still be friends. Ultimately your head has to win.
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